How are the Kidlets?
It’s spring break! Β Hip hip hurray!!!! Β We’ve had such a great week. Β We homeschoolers aren’t used to this “getting out of our jammies before 10am” thing. Β School is brutal to our lazy morning routine! Β But, slowly and surely we are learning. Β This week of free play and jammie time has been just what the doctor ordered. Β Woot!
So, how are the kidlets? Β You’ve been asking and it blesses my heart that so many people love our kids. Β I mean, I know they’re pretty fab, but nothing lights me up more than when other people care about my kids. Β (Doing the dishes for me comes in as a close second, for future reference) Β I would say the kids are doing pretty great.
Addy is loving school. Β I’m not surprised. Β She’s basically my Mini-Me and I LOVED school, all the way through college I loved it. Β I loved the friends, the food, the friends…and more time with friends. Β Addy is a social butterfly, so she really enjoys her time at school. Β She’s made a couple of little friends and wakes up each day ready to go. Β She’s still doing gymnastics twice a week and also really enjoys that. Β Probably her favorite time of the day though, is when all the kids go to bed and she can read with her flashlight. Β Addy is a total book-lover. Β She always has been. Β She doesn’t get as much free-reading time now that she spends her mornings in school, so we let her basically read for as long as she wants at night. Β She finished the Anne of Green Gables series a couple of weeks back and just informed me that she’s now moved on to Shakespeare. Β Ha! Β She reads a version of Shakespeare that has been put more in a story form for kids. Β Here’s the version, if you’re interested: http://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Stories-Shakespeare-Edith-Nesbit/dp/1604595752
Ez Pez. Β Oh, my Ez Pez. Β Sweet little boy. Β School’s a bit harder for Ezra, but he still says he enjoys it. Β He would prefer to stay home and Lego it up all day, but alas, he’s learning that he does have some responsibilities in this world. Β π Β He always comes home from school excited about his time and eager to tell me all about it. Β I choose to take that as a good sign. Β He hasn’t made much progress in the friend department yet, but I think that’s maybe a boy thing. Β I wouldn’t know, being a girl and all. Β π He loves his sister and honestly, if he has Addy he is as content as can be. Β The two of them have their moments, but in general, they are closer than they’ve ever been. Β They are each others’ best friend- though they would never admit it! Β Hehe. Β Ezra is probably the most confident at language out of all the kids and we hear from others that his accent’s not half bad! Β Sweeeet. Β He has such a tender heart and I’ve noticed lately that when we share with the kids about Romaniv he really takes it to heart. Β He thinks about it and it affects him. Β I’m so proud of him.
Havalah and Seth are doing awesome. They are still so young, they seem to have barely noticed that we don’t live in the US anymore! Β Kidding…sort of. Β Seth is getting so big! Β He’s grown out of his 4T clothes and he won’t be 4 until June. Β He is so tall!!! Β He’s talking a ton and his personality is coming out more and more. Β We celebrated his Adoption Day last week. Β I was again reminded of how amazingly blessed we are to be his parents. Β He could not be a better fit in this family. Β I really can not imagine what our lives would be like if we had said no to the DHS phone call that day in 2010. Β Havalah remains a teeny tiny firecracker. Β Oh my word. Β That girl has got so much personality! Β She goes about town, leaving swooning Babushkas in her wake. Β Half of Zhytomyr is in love with Havalah. Β Ha! Β She is thriving and is content to spend most of her waking hours playing make-believe with her Playmobils. Β Hava brings unbelievable joy to our home.
School has been quite the adventure! Β I guess that’s the best way to describe it. Β It’s actually been less of an adjustment than I would have imagined. Β The kids like to go and are happy when we see them at the end of school time each day. Β Their teacher doesn’t speak English and communicates with us by note. Β She’ll write notes in this little book and then I go home and spend the next 45 minutes trying to decipher her handwriting so I can translate the note. Β Ha! Β She thinks the kids are doing great and in one note she said to “Please thank the tutor who helps the children with their homework.” Β Ummmm, what tutor? Β I wish! This Mommy and Daddy are the tutors around this joint! Β Homework is a family affair each night as Jed and I bust out our phones to translate the homework assignment. Β Painful with a capital P.
On March 8th we celebrated International Women’s Day at the school and the kids each had to memorize a poem to recite for all the moms. Β They were given the poems on Monday to be memorized by Friday!!! Β Panic ensued as we frantically translated and rehearsed and stumbled and cried. Β But, by Friday our whole family knew both of the poems and Addy and Ezra rocked it. Β They did SO AWESOME. Β I think when I was sitting there listening to them recite their poems I was the most proud of them I have ever been. Β They are just so stinkin’ brave. Β Really.
They say they don’t understand what their teacher says, but they are doing well in school, so I think they must understand more than they realize. Β They still can’t say much at all in Ukrainian. Β My friend Alexis, who encourages me by email about language (thank you!!!), says that everyone who is learning a new language has a “silent phase”. Β In that phase, you may not be able to produce spoken language, but you are still learning. Β I think our whole family is in one big “Silent Phase”. Β Alexis said she spoke to a man who moved his family to Japan and put his kids in Japanese school. Β He said it took about 6 months and then they really took off. Β I’ve heard many language promises that point to that 6-month mark. Β Oh please Lord, let it be so! Β π Β Addy and Ez write beautifully in Ukrainian and can read, they just don’t know what they’re reading and writing. Β But, all in good time. Β Step by step.
It’s not all lollipops and roses. Β The kids have their hard days, for sure. Β They miss their friends and cousins. Β They miss Grandparents and church and English. Β On a rare occasion one of them will mention that they wish we could go back to Salem, but it’s not something they dwell on. Β Even Jed and I have our lonely times when we think how much easier it would seem to just go back, but that’s not every moment. Β Same with the kids. Β They are being stretched and challenged for sure. Β I wish I had someone to talk to who has “been there done that”. Β I have no idea how to parent through all this transition, and in a second culture. Β Still, the kids are happy and thriving in so many ways. Β They are so brave and we trust that God knew what He was doing when He made each of them how He did. Β They were made for this, just like Jed and me. Β I’m so proud of them I could burst.
In fact, I’m so proud I just have to show them off a bit. Β Here’s some video lovin’ for your enjoyment. Β Thanks so much all of you who love my babies and pray for them. Β It means the world to us!!
And just for fun, here are Hava’s outtakes. Enjoy the silliness!