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How are the Kidlets?

It’s spring break! Β Hip hip hurray!!!! Β We’ve had such a great week. Β We homeschoolers aren’t used to this “getting out of our jammies before 10am” thing. Β School is brutal to our lazy morning routine! Β But, slowly and surely we are learning. Β This week of free play and jammie time has been just what the doctor ordered. Β Woot!

So, how are the kidlets? Β You’ve been asking and it blesses my heart that so many people love our kids. Β I mean, I know they’re pretty fab, but nothing lights me up more than when other people care about my kids. Β (Doing the dishes for me comes in as a close second, for future reference) Β I would say the kids are doing pretty great.

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My Love

Addy is loving school. Β I’m not surprised. Β She’s basically my Mini-Me and I LOVED school, all the way through college I loved it. Β I loved the friends, the food, the friends…and more time with friends. Β Addy is a social butterfly, so she really enjoys her time at school. Β She’s made a couple of little friends and wakes up each day ready to go. Β She’s still doing gymnastics twice a week and also really enjoys that. Β Probably her favorite time of the day though, is when all the kids go to bed and she can read with her flashlight. Β Addy is a total book-lover. Β She always has been. Β She doesn’t get as much free-reading time now that she spends her mornings in school, so we let her basically read for as long as she wants at night. Β She finished the Anne of Green Gables series a couple of weeks back and just informed me that she’s now moved on to Shakespeare. Β Ha! Β She reads a version of Shakespeare that has been put more in a story form for kids. Β Here’s the version, if you’re interested: http://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Stories-Shakespeare-Edith-Nesbit/dp/1604595752

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Handsome schoolboy

Ez Pez. Β Oh, my Ez Pez. Β Sweet little boy. Β School’s a bit harder for Ezra, but he still says he enjoys it. Β He would prefer to stay home and Lego it up all day, but alas, he’s learning that he does have some responsibilities in this world. Β πŸ™‚ Β He always comes home from school excited about his time and eager to tell me all about it. Β I choose to take that as a good sign. Β He hasn’t made much progress in the friend department yet, but I think that’s maybe a boy thing. Β I wouldn’t know, being a girl and all. Β πŸ˜‰ He loves his sister and honestly, if he has Addy he is as content as can be. Β The two of them have their moments, but in general, they are closer than they’ve ever been. Β They are each others’ best friend- though they would never admit it! Β Hehe. Β Ezra is probably the most confident at language out of all the kids and we hear from others that his accent’s not half bad! Β Sweeeet. Β He has such a tender heart and I’ve noticed lately that when we share with the kids about Romaniv he really takes it to heart. Β He thinks about it and it affects him. Β I’m so proud of him.

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Joy!

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Big Boy!

Havalah and Seth are doing awesome. They are still so young, they seem to have barely noticed that we don’t live in the US anymore! Β Kidding…sort of. Β Seth is getting so big! Β He’s grown out of his 4T clothes and he won’t be 4 until June. Β He is so tall!!! Β He’s talking a ton and his personality is coming out more and more. Β We celebrated his Adoption Day last week. Β I was again reminded of how amazingly blessed we are to be his parents. Β He could not be a better fit in this family. Β I really can not imagine what our lives would be like if we had said no to the DHS phone call that day in 2010. Β Havalah remains a teeny tiny firecracker. Β Oh my word. Β That girl has got so much personality! Β She goes about town, leaving swooning Babushkas in her wake. Β Half of Zhytomyr is in love with Havalah. Β Ha! Β She is thriving and is content to spend most of her waking hours playing make-believe with her Playmobils. Β Hava brings unbelievable joy to our home.

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School has been quite the adventure! Β I guess that’s the best way to describe it. Β It’s actually been less of an adjustment than I would have imagined. Β The kids like to go and are happy when we see them at the end of school time each day. Β Their teacher doesn’t speak English and communicates with us by note. Β She’ll write notes in this little book and then I go home and spend the next 45 minutes trying to decipher her handwriting so I can translate the note. Β Ha! Β She thinks the kids are doing great and in one note she said to “Please thank the tutor who helps the children with their homework.” Β Ummmm, what tutor? Β I wish! This Mommy and Daddy are the tutors around this joint! Β Homework is a family affair each night as Jed and I bust out our phones to translate the homework assignment. Β Painful with a capital P.

On March 8th we celebrated International Women’s Day at the school and the kids each had to memorize a poem to recite for all the moms. Β They were given the poems on Monday to be memorized by Friday!!! Β Panic ensued as we frantically translated and rehearsed and stumbled and cried. Β But, by Friday our whole family knew both of the poems and Addy and Ezra rocked it. Β They did SO AWESOME. Β I think when I was sitting there listening to them recite their poems I was the most proud of them I have ever been. Β They are just so stinkin’ brave. Β Really.

They say they don’t understand what their teacher says, but they are doing well in school, so I think they must understand more than they realize. Β They still can’t say much at all in Ukrainian. Β My friend Alexis, who encourages me by email about language (thank you!!!), says that everyone who is learning a new language has a “silent phase”. Β In that phase, you may not be able to produce spoken language, but you are still learning. Β I think our whole family is in one big “Silent Phase”. Β Alexis said she spoke to a man who moved his family to Japan and put his kids in Japanese school. Β He said it took about 6 months and then they really took off. Β I’ve heard many language promises that point to that 6-month mark. Β Oh please Lord, let it be so! Β πŸ™‚ Β Addy and Ez write beautifully in Ukrainian and can read, they just don’t know what they’re reading and writing. Β But, all in good time. Β Step by step.

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It’s not all lollipops and roses. Β The kids have their hard days, for sure. Β They miss their friends and cousins. Β They miss Grandparents and church and English. Β On a rare occasion one of them will mention that they wish we could go back to Salem, but it’s not something they dwell on. Β Even Jed and I have our lonely times when we think how much easier it would seem to just go back, but that’s not every moment. Β Same with the kids. Β They are being stretched and challenged for sure. Β I wish I had someone to talk to who has “been there done that”. Β I have no idea how to parent through all this transition, and in a second culture. Β Still, the kids are happy and thriving in so many ways. Β They are so brave and we trust that God knew what He was doing when He made each of them how He did. Β They were made for this, just like Jed and me. Β I’m so proud of them I could burst.

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In fact, I’m so proud I just have to show them off a bit. Β Here’s some video lovin’ for your enjoyment. Β Thanks so much all of you who love my babies and pray for them. Β It means the world to us!!

And just for fun, here are Hava’s outtakes. Enjoy the silliness!

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This One Goes Out to the Ones We Love

9 Days. Β The countdown is ON.

Only 9 more days till we have some very, extremely, over-the-top special guests at our house.

Eeeeeeek! Β We are so excited!

In 9 days our dearest Tom and Emma will arrive for a 10 day visit and we can’t believe it’s true.

Let me just brag on Tom and Emma for a sec. Β Many, many moons ago we met our friend Tom. Β Addy was only a toddler at the time and she was in love. Β She would chase Tom all over church calling him Keith Green. Β (Don’t ask, we still don’t know why…) Β Tom became family to us and actually ended up living with us for several years. Β He was the best housemate you could ask for. Β Then, Tom got even better by choosing an AWESOME wife, the amazing Emma from across the sea.

Tom and Emma have been such good friends to us. Β They have supported us and encouraged us since the very beginning of this crazy journey. Β They’ve spent countless hours playing cards and Speed Scrabble with us. Β They moved in and stayed with our kids when we were in Ukraine on our planning trip last May. Β They let us have the CRAZY HUGE garage sale at their house in the fall. Β They even let us stay with them for our last two weeks in the States before moving to Ukraine. Β They are simply the best. Β (Can you tell we miss them?)

Anyway, Emma is from England, and she and Tom are headed that way to visit her family. Β Since they’ll be sooooo close to Ukraine they decided they better pop on in for a visit! Β I mean, how can you come all the way across the pond and not come for a sleepover? Β It just wouldn’t be right! Β πŸ™‚

The kids have literally been counting down the days. Β We knew they were excited for the visit, but when Jed noticed what they were playing this afternoon he had to document the sweetness of it.

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Meet Tom and Emma πŸ™‚

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Tom, Seth, Havalah, Emma, Addy, and Ezra

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Taking a tour of where we buy milk…

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Checking out the meat market…hahaha

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Hava giving a tour of our house. (I promise we don’t really live in a barn)

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Introducing Tom and Emma to our friends Oleg and Tanya, and baby Zakhar

So, yes, you can see we are pretty excited for our visitors to arrive. Β More than anything it means the world to us that they would take the time to come all this way. Β We so wantΒ ourΒ friends and family to see our life here and meet the people we love so much.Β 

Come on Tom and Β Emma! We’re waiting!!! Β πŸ™‚ Β 

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The First Week

We’re nearly done with our first week of Ukrainian public school. Β Whew! Β We made it!

All in all I would say the week has gone well. Β It’s a pretty huge life adjustment for our family, so it’s definitely going to take some time to adapt, but really, so far so good. Β I guess I couldn’t have asked for it to go any better. Β The kids are happy and they love it. Β The teacher is kind and made a point today of having an English teacher meet me in the classroom when I dropped the off the kids just so she could have a translator to help her find out if the kids are happy and okay. Β The fact that she cares and wanted to check in made me so happy and relieved.

The process of getting them in to the school has been pretty easy, but also pretty interesting. Β Yesterday I went to the Ministry of Education office with the school’sΒ Assistant Director and an English teacher to get the kids registered with the region. Β Then today I had to fill out another application thingy to go to the Director of the school, plus I filled out an info sheet for their teacher. Β My Cyrillic writing probably looks like a kindergartner’s…so I hope they could read everything okay. Β πŸ™‚ Β We had to give the school notarized copies of their passports and vaccination records. Β Unfortunately our vaccination records are all in English, but fortunately, with the combo of the school nurse and me + a friend helping to translate + sign language of diseases + common brand names of vaccines we were able to figure out if they had all the required vaccines. Β Apparently our kids are waaaaay more vaccinated than Ukrainian kids, so the nurse said they were A-OK. Β Haha! Β All they need to be fully registered is TB tests.

Here is their school schedule, in case you’re curious:

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Every day their class walks down the street to the school building where the older kids study and they eat a free meal in the cafeteria. Β It’s no big surprise that that’s my kids’ favorite part of the day. Β πŸ™‚ Β They usually eat at like 9:30, but the meals are like full on lunch/dinner foods. The first day they had salami, corn, and pasta; another day they had meatballs and rice; yesterday they had fish and potatoes, and then today they had some kind of porridge and meat. Β Tea with milk is served every day with the meal. Β There’s a little counter in the cafeteria where kids can buy treats with their own money. Β Addy and Ez said that usually a few kids will buy snacks and share them with all the other kids during breaks. Β So, today they made sure to pack some grivna in their backpacks so they could get in on the treat time. Β πŸ™‚

The kids wear uniforms, boys in suit jackets and slacks, girls in black dresses or skirts. Β The Director said we don’t need to worry about uniforms yet…but he didn’t say when to buy them…I guess someone will tell me when it’s time. Β All the kids wear snow boots to school, and then when they arrive they change in to slippers to wear in their classroom.

Addy and Ezra tell us that the kids are really kind to them, and they’re learning some of their names. They say they don’t understand much at all of what their teacher says and I’m not sure the best way to help them with that. Β Will it just come in time, or is there something we should be doing at home to help them? Jed and I are studying Russian, but the kids’ school is all in Ukrainian. Β Oy. Β I have no idea what we need to be doing to assist them…I’ve never done this before and don’t know anyone else who has. Β Anybody have any ideas? Β This is uncharted territory for our family, and honestly is pretty overwhelming. Β I know, I know, one step at a time. Β I wish we were all learning the same language. Β Jed and I debated for a long time before we moved here on if we should learn Russian or Ukrainian. Β We really felt like we should focus on Russian. Β Pray for us, would you? We just need a lot of wisdom in this situation, and we all need loads of supernatural language abilities. Β Thank you!

Thank you everyone for all your prayers and encouragement as the kids started school. Β On one hand, this is so exciting because it really plants us here in Zhitomir even more. Β We are learning more about the culture and everyday life for the Ukrainian people. Β We’re dropping off and picking up along with loads of other parents and interacting with a lot of people who are super curious about why we are here. Β There are many opportunities for Jesus’ name to be made great.

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On the other hand, I feel like I’m in a bit of a mourning phase. Β Having our kids always together has been our way. Β It’s all we know as a family. Β Homeschooling them has been a MAJOR focus of my time and energy for the past four years. Β Addy and Ezra being gone during the day EVERY DAY is huge. Β It changes everything and I just need an extra dose of peace during this time. Β I’m missing them like crazy and often during the day I wonder if this is the right thing to do. Β We’re asking Addy and Ezra to do something very, very difficult and I wonder about their little hearts. Β Are they scared? Β Are they confused? Β But, then they come home happy and I know we can make it another day. Β I guess this is just a “yes” that is pretty hard for me right now. Β Praise God they are loving it a lot and I know He is super close to them while they are away.

Do you have any questions about school? Β Ask away! Β It’s a pretty fascinating thing to be up close and personal with a situation so foreign to us. Β I still can’t believe this is my life. Β Ha! Β So cool.

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A School Story

Big news folks. Β My sweet Addy and Ezra are starting school on Monday. Β Hold me.

How did this come about? Β Wanna know? Β Okay, I’ll tell you. Β πŸ™‚

During Christmas time my friend Tanya told me about a gymnastics class at our neighborhood public school. Β The daughter of one of her family members attends the class and she knew we were on the lookout for some sort of activity for our kids where they could hear language and interact with other kids, so she asked if we were interested. Β Sure! Natasha, the mom of the girl attending, asked the coach if some crazy Americans could try out her class and she said yes! Β So we did.

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Oh the hilarity that ensued. Β Seriously, to be a fly on the wall. Β It is VERY entertaining. Β I think Tanya and I laughed nonstop during the first class. Β Picture a very old gym with bare walls, barred windows, and dirty mats. Β Picture flexible Ukrainian kids flipping and cartwheeling and doing the splits and the bridge like they were birthed onto a balance beam. Β Then picture the Johnson children (minus Seth) entering with all their clumsiness and lack of coordination (I’ll take all the genetic responsibility for that); not understanding a lick of the language, not able to cartwheel, but doing their very darndest to follow along. Β Then picture the coach calling out orders in loud Russian. Β It’s like a three-ring circus I tell ya.

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Believe it or not, the kids LOVED gymnastics class and continued to attend all during the school’s Christmas break. Β Technically the class is only for the students of that particular school and is free for them. Β But, the coach likes our kids (she is so kind) and said she would ask the Director of the school if he would allow them to continue in gymnastics once school was back in session. Β She even said Hava could stay in class, even though she’s technically too young. Β πŸ™‚

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We were in Switzerland getting our visas when Tanya emailed to let us know that the director had agreed to the kids continuing gymnastics! Β Woohoo! Β He had also asked why they don’t attend school. Β  Everyone had been telling us that the schools wouldn’t accept our kids because they don’t speak but a few words of Ukrainian and Russian. Β As far as we know, our kids are the only foreigners around, so the schools are not at all set up to work with non-native speakers. Β The director said that was no problem and that he wanted to talk with Jed and me when we got home from Switzerland.

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A couple days after we got home from the visa trip we went to the director’s office for a chat. Β He doesn’t speak any English, so the school English teacher translated. Β He asked us the ages of the kids and where we live. Β He asked if we plan to be in Ukraine for a long time or just short term and if the kids are vaccinated. Β Then he got on the phone and talked about the situation to a higher-up at the Ministry of Education. Β At the end of the meeting, he told us the kids are welcome to attend his school if we want!

We are a homeschooling family to the core. Β We love homeschooling. Β Addy went to kindergarten at a Christian school in Oregon where my mom teaches, and Ez went to one year of preschool there, but otherwise, they’ve only been taught at home. Β Homeschooling has just become a way of life for us and we have never thought we would do anything different. Β If you’re curious why we homeschool I can talk about that in another post. Β I LOVE to talk all things homeschool, so don’t be shy! Β  All that said, things got a bit tricky once we got to Ukraine. Β Our kids’ brains are wired for language learning right now. Β Everyone says “Your kids will learn the language so fast! Β You won’t believe it!” Β That’s probably true, but how can it happen if they are home all day? Β They certainly aren’t going to learn it quickly from me! Β Ha! Β We put them in gymnastics, and they attend Awanas, and Sunday School, all in Russian and Ukrainian. Β They have picked up quite a bit, but it’s slow. Β They need to be immersed in the language while their brains are in this forming stage. Β I wish I had that opportunity! We don’t really know of an option for a tutor who can teach them as many hours as they need here at home, so we were at a bit of a loss. Β We were asking the Lord what to do to help our kids with the language. Β We considered checking out the two local, Ukrainian Christian schools in town, thinking maybe they would have the ability to be more flexible with us, but they are both pretty far from our house. Β Then this school fell into our laps.

On Thursday Jed and I went back to the school to check out the classroom they would be in and meet the teacher. Β We asked the Lord to guide us and give us peace if this was the way to go. Β What can I say? Β It was great. Β We decided to give it a go. Β The school is about a 5-minute walk from our house. Β Addy and Ez get to be in the same class, and school only goes from 8:30-noon. Β Totally doable! Β The director wants to put them in first grade because they need to learn to read and write in Ukrainian, and those students are still learning those skills. Most of the students in the class will be 7, so Addy and Ez will be older than them, but we aren’t worried about that. Β The main goal here is language acquisition, Β and having them with kids younger than themselves will probably help take away some of the social pressures that would distract them from learning. Β Plus, first graders get to do more fun stuff πŸ™‚

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The thought right now is that they will attend school from 8:30-noon, and then come home to continue plugging along in their normal homeschool work. Β We’ll only focus on the basics when they get home, like English and math, since I know their brains will probably be a bit fried when they get home from school. Β Their school is taught in Ukrainian and their teacher speaks no English. Β This school also specializes in Polish, so they’ll be studying Polish three times a week. Β Oh my…this should be an adventure!

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Our Teacher

This is the plan that seems most peaceful right now. Β We’ll finish out this school year and then re-evaluate for the fall. Β I most definitely don’t want to abandon homeschooling, since the reasons why we school at home haven’t changed. Β I guess we’ll take it a year at a time and see what God says.

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So, Monday is the big day! Β School books have been purchased and the kids are excited to go. Β I’m excited for them…but also quite nervous for them. Β I’m so extremely thankful they get to be in the same class. Β Praise God for His kindness. Β He opened this door when we weren’t even looking and totally paved the way. Β We are praying that this leads to divine relationships and open doors in our neighborhood. Β We are excited to see how God plans to use this for His glory.

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If you would pray for us on Monday morning (Sunday night in the US) we would appreciate it so much!!! Β I’ll let you know how it goes!

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Oh Christmas Tree…On a Bus

Once upon a time, we went Christmas tree hunting in Ukraine…

Uuuuhhhh Β how’re we gonna get this baby home??

We’ll take the bus of course! It’s the only way…

A Christmas tree on a bus, check that one off the list of things we didn’t think we’d ever do!

We trekked down the street happy with our find and feeling pretty proud of ourselves too!

Home to our favorite decorations for the tree πŸ™‚

We love our sweet tree, what a beautiful sight

Merry Christmas to all, and to all a good night!

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The Gift of Advent in Ukraine

I can’t even believe Christmas is just a week away! I’m a Christmas junkie. I looooove me some Christmas. I may, in fact, be the friend that calls her other Christmas-lovin’ friends the minute Christmas music is first heard on the radio, “K103 is playing Christmas music!!!” Mmmm I love it all.

I love the decorations, the music, the smells, the fooooood, the special Christmasy outings that involve mittens and hot cocoa (except if you live in Oregon don’t do the Polar Express…lame-o), the movies, the family togetherness…ALL OF IT. Havalah was born on December 22nd and that was the best Christmas ever. We had snow that Christmas! My Grandad had to go pick up my parents to get them down their hill so they could make it to the hospital. I remember laying in the hospital bed with my sweet little Hava-bundle, snow was falling outside, and Jed and I were watching reruns of A Christmas Story non-stop. It was a sweet deal because TBS was doing a marathon, so each of the times we woke to feed Hava in the night we caught a different part of Ralphie. Pure bliss. πŸ™‚

So, how does a Christmas lover handle her first Christmas away from family and all things cozy and familiar??? Very carefully.

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So far we’ve been doing really good! I got a bit weepy when I saw my mom post pics of my 2 nephews helping her and my dad get their Christmas tree; I felt sad my kids weren’t there. But other than that moment, it’s been A-OK. I know a HUGE part of that is because Jed’s awesome parents arrive here on Saturday and will spend Christmas with us!!! Woot! They live in Kosovo, so it’s just a short little jaunt for them to get to us. They won’t even be jetlagged! It will be so great. The kids are super excited to show Grammy and Papa their new digs.

MTU classroom- best snowman!!!

The other night we had our friends Oleg and Tanya over and introduced them to A Christmas Story. They loved Ralphie, and it was fun to watch them watch it. Classic America right there folks. I made cinnamon rolls (that didn’t rise, ahem…) and thumbprint cookies. We drank coffee and tea; it was cozy and festive and perfect (Until Addy started throwing up. Oy. Let’s just make sure to get that bug through the whole fam before Christmas Day, mmmmk?).

Thtuck, thtuck…THTUCK!!!!!

A couple years ago we started celebrating Advent with our kids. Celebrating it here in Ukraine has been such a sweet experience. I’m really not exaggerating when I say I think our Advent “Family Time” has been key to our kids’ transition to life in this faraway land.

Every night we gather at the table with kids in jammies, pour our tea, light our candles, and turn out the lights. We listen to a piece from Handel’s Messiah and either Jed or I read a portion of Scripture that goes along with the music. We got that plan here.

Then we read from our most favorite Advent book ever: Jotham’s Journey. If you have grade-school-age kids I highly recommend Jotham! We first read it 2 years ago at Advent (thanks Lanny!) and then again this year. The kids didn’t remember the plot twists and turns, so it’s been super fun. It’s awesome how the little devotional at the end of each chapter lines up with our Handels pieces.

Then after Jotham we listen to/review our memory verse for the week. We started using an app from Children Desiring God for Scripture memorization and I’m in love.

The kids thrive on our nightly “Family Time”. They love the tea, the togetherness, and the routine of it all. I’m oddly comforted by it too. Tonight Jed and I were talking about how sweet our Advent time has been and the fact that Family Time will definitely continue after Christmas. We’ve never been a family of nighttime routines, mainly because with work schedules and church and friend commitments we were often away in the evenings. Now that we’re in Ukraine, especially with these early winter nights, we are rarely gone in the evening, so we actually have some consistency. It has been beautiful. Many people thought moving in the winter was a pretty difficult choice, but I think it was actually a gift. God knew our family would need a bit of a hibernation period as we entered this new life. It’s hard to hibernate in the summer! πŸ™‚

So, that’s how we are preparing our hearts and our home for Christmas. It looks far different than any other Christmas season we’ve had, but it’s sweet in different ways as well. We don’t have any Ugly Christmas Sweater Parties to go to, but we have each other. As our new country is in upheaval and people stand in the freezing streets longing for their voices to be heard, we long more than ever for God’s Kingdom to come here and now. In this Advent season, we thank Him for coming that first Christmas Day, and we look with longing and expectation for that day when He will come again. On that day all will be made right. No more pain, no more injustice. Come, Lord Jesus, we wait with expectation for You!

Merry Christmas dear friends! May your hearts be filled with joy this season as you say YES to Him.

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Birthday Cooking in Ukraine 101

Saturday was Ezra’s birthday!

This was the first birthday celebrated away from family, so I think Jed and I were both feeling the need to make Ezra’s birthday extra special. As in, Ez was convinced Hannah came to visit JUST for his birthday. We let him believe that. After all, it’s not every day you turn 8!

We asked Ezra what he wanted to eat for his birthday and he said he wanted pizza. Woohoo! I can make pizza! No big deal. He also said that instead of birthday cake, he wanted cherry vareniki. Really??? Okay, buddy, anything for you on your birthday.

So, Friday night, right after her arrival, I roped Hannah into helping me make some vareniki. It’s a time intensive job, but much more fun when you have company. πŸ™‚ Vareniki are little dumplings made from butter, flour, salt, and egg. They can be filled with potatoes, cheese, mushrooms, cabbage…or cherries. Mmmmm. That’s how we like them best! You top the cherry ones with sugar and sour cream. They really are delish. Jed and I had them the first time we came to Ukraine and I’m pretty sure I experimented cooking them the very day after we arrived home. πŸ™‚

Vareniki/PJ party

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We rolled out the dough, cut out little circles, then put a spoonful of sugar and a couple cherries in each circle of dough. Then we ran into problems. You have to crimp the dough around the edges to seal it so the cherries don’t leak out when the vareniki is boiled. Well, I always just set my cherries in a strainer and work fast. BUT the only cherries we could find were frozen, and as they thawed they leaked like crazy. We had some funky looking vareniki on our hands!
While we worked we listened to the Phil Collins station on Spotify. In my former life (2 weeks ago) I did all my best work (and card-playing) to Phil Collins station on Pandora. Jed, Tom, Emma, and I have worked for years (literally) to perfect our Phil Collins station. It’s seriously like a work of art. Occasionally a Coldplay song will get thrown in and one of us will rush over to thumb it down, but that’s a rarity. It’s pretty spot-on in awesomeness. It’s been faithfully tended and nurtured to perfection. Let’s just say, when it comes to Spotify radio we have our work cut out for us. No Pandora in Ukraine = starting over. Boo.
BUT, Jed had just mentioned earlier in the evening (can’t remember why) that it felt like a Top Gun music moment. And while we were in the deep throes of vareniki-making, guess what song came on???

Cool, right?? PS: not sure why the vareniki look hypercolor yellow. Hmmmm

Nothing lifts the spirits like a good 80’s mix. πŸ˜‰
Saturday dawned and Ezra was up with the sun. He was so excited for his big day!!
Hannah and I got busy on the pizza dough fairly early since we had guests coming to celebrate for lunch. As we let the dough rise we walked down to the grocery store to see if, by chance, we could find some parchment paper for the pizza baking. We were doubtful we would find anything, but it was worth a shot! Imagine our surprise when we found just what we were looking for!
We hurried home, rolled out our dough, and got ready to preheat the oven. Then we actually took a good look at the oven and found this:

Ummm this is our oven control. Any idea how to decipher this?? Only three temp choices. I guess we better invest in a thermometer πŸ™‚

We spent some time googling for a way to use the oven and eventually decided to just wing it. The dough baked perfectly! Yummmmm!!!! Praise The Lord!
I took it out, ready to slide it off the pan….and at that point realized we didn’t actually buy parchment paper. It appeared we bought some sort of paper that stuck like glue to the dough. Hahahahaha

Pizza with a side of paper

Time to clean the dough off the paper in the other pans before the other crusts suffered the same fate!
In the end, the pizza and vareniki turned out delicious and all was well. This adventure is so hilariously fun!!!

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On Cousin-Fetching and Toddler Bribery

This weekend was full.

Full of fun, full of laughs, full of food, and full of lessons learned the hard way. Hence all the laughter.

My cousin Hannah came to stay for the weekend! She arrived on Friday afternoon and we were so excited it was like Christmas Eve on Thursday night. Our first real visitor from afar! Hannah has been in Western Ukraine doing an internship through her University back in Oregon. She arrived in Ukraine in September and will leave in December, so this weekend was our chance to experience Ukraine together. We had a BLAST.

Jed was at Romaniv orphanage with MTU on Friday, so it was up to me to fetch Hannah from the bus and get her back to our house…with all the kids in tow. It might have been a tad intimidating, but I was feelin’ good, feelin’ confident. I could do this!

When our family travels from Kiev to Zhitomir we take a certain bus that randomly picks up at a metro stop in Kiev and stops really close to our house in Zhitomir. Well, Hannah wasn’t taking that bus. She arrived in Kiev via train, so she was going to catch a bus leaving from the official bus station in Kiev. I asked a friend where that bus would drop her and he was pretty sure it would take her straight to the big bus station in Zhitomir.

The kids and I left early so that we could easily navigate the local buses to get to the big bus station. I knew that I knew where I was going, so it was all good. I prepped the kids (listen to Mommy, stay close to Mommy, pay attention to what’s happening around you…blah blah blah) and they were doing great! We arrived at the bus station plenty early; we even had time to get a little bread treat at a bakery next door (which was surprisingly filled with meat…not a bad thing, unless you’re hoping for sweet. Hehe) All was well…or so I thought. πŸ™‚

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After about 45 minutes I got a phone call from Hannah:

“I’m here! Where are you guys?”

“Oh, we’re inside. We’ll come right out! Hmmmm I don’t see you…where are you? Maybe stand underneath one of the bus stall numbers so we can find each other that way.”

“Okay, I’m standing under number 7.”

“Ummmm…me too. Oh geeeeeeeez.”

Oops. Hahahaha! We were at the wrong bus station! Apparently, the Kiev bus station sometimes delivers to the OTHER bus station in Zhitomir. Wa waaaaah. No big deal, except I totally didn’t know how to get from one station to the other. So, I told Hannah to stay put, and in good faith, told her we would find her. πŸ˜‰

I called Jed, who happened to be with locals who also spoke English and everyone was trying to give me directions…it wasn’t happening. So, I got all brave and started asking directions in broken Russian. And, wonder of wonders, miracle of miracles, we made it! We found Hannah!!!

It was quite the triumphant moment. Hannah and I were squealing with joy, everyone around was laughing at us, the kids were jumping up and down…it was a sight to behold, I’m sure. πŸ™‚
At that point, I was feeling pretty proud of myself. Look at me, all travel-savvy! Errrrr…not quite.
So, I thought I knew the way home from the second bus station, but once we started walking, the street I thought I needed was a one-way. Looking back, we probably should have just returned the way we came, but I think I was too overcome with joy at seeing Hannah to think rationally.
We started walking, and walking, and walking, looking for a familiar landmark. Oy. Struggle. Soon we were quite lost. Ha! The kids were being quite the little troopers until Seth decided he was done walking. He started doing that limp-noodle thing until I was basically dragging him down the sidewalk. If any of you know Seth in real life you know he’s a big boy. He’s no lightweight. Hannah and I had already taken turns carrying him and Hava quite a bit, and at that point, he just really needed to walk. But he wouldn’t. He sat down on the sidewalk and started screaming his lungs out. I didn’t know what to do, so I did the “Okay, Mommy’s leaving..bye bye…” thing (which rarely works with Hava and NEVER works with Seth. He calls my bluff every time) and Seth continued to park it and scream, much to the amusement of everyone passing by. Again, quite the sight to behold, I’m sure.
Enter the Babushkas.
Two little old ladies walked up to Seth and started rattling off in Russian. I’m not sure what they were saying, but they were apparently trying to convince him to stand up. They were tugging at him, pulling at him, talking and talking and talking to him as I stood back laughing way too hard to be considered a good parent. Seth was not havin’ it. He only started screaming louder and louder. “Who are these people?? What are they saying? What have I gotten myself into???” Then one of the Babushkas started digging around in her bag and pulled out a piece of candy. She offered it to Seth- in exchange for him standing up…which worked. OF COURSE! Seth grabbed that candy, stood right on up, wiped his tears, and marched over to Mommy, “I eat my candy now???” OMG.
Hannah and I were dying. We were laughing so hard. Only NOT in the US would a total stranger walk up to your screaming toddler on the street and bribe him with candy. It was amazing. In that moment I was so stinkin’ thankful for that Babushka! She saved my life. πŸ˜‰ I told Seth he couldn’t eat his candy till he walked all the way to the bus. Oh yeah, I got some mileage out of that bribe. You better believe it! Oh, I love Ukraine.
Eventually, we found a bus number I recognized, made it home, and settled into a cozy weekend of fun with our Hannah.
Stay tuned for the rest of our weekend adventures!

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How it Went Down

We are here! We are here! Holy, moly, the outpouring of support has blown us away. We feel so loved and spoiled! Our friends and family rock. So many Viber messages, so much facebook encouragement, so many emails. Thank you all for loving us so well.

Here’s how it went down.

Portland:

We said goodbye to my family and it was p-a-i-n-f-u-l. Picture Addy clinging to the window, sobbing as our family walked away and you’ll be able to picture the level of sadness. Our family has so fully released us to this and we know it is hard. I can’t imagine how we could even do this if they didn’t let us know that they are behind this 100%. Thank you dear fam for letting us go. WE LOVE YOU!

We were feeling rather pathetic, so we hurried off to distract ourselves with a long security line. That line made us want to poke our eyes out, so the other sadness was forgotten for a bit. It felt like all we had ever known was that line and our 4 roller carry-ons + 5 backpacks + 1 guitar. All time stopped and we were lost in the vortex of shoe-taking off, pocket-emptying, luggage-heaving, and luggage-scanning and re-scanning. Did I mention the miracle that we got to check all 12 bags ALL THE WAY to Kiev, and 7 of them were a couple pounds overweight and they made us pay nothing? Oh the cheering that rang out at the American Airlines ticket counter!! Did I also mention that TSA officers have a knack for opening the bags stuffed with loose legos? Yep, they chose the lego bags without fail. Hehe…it was like an explosion of legos every time. Annnnnd it never stopped being funny.

Flight #1

This flight was pretty uneventful. As we were heading down the runway I explained to Havalah that we have to go really fast before we go up in the air. She said “Oh, when we start to drive really fast will our hair blow back?” πŸ™‚

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Chicago:

TSA really had a ball with our luggage this time. They must have scanned Ezra’s backpack 4 times. I think the nerf gun bullets were the culprit…or maybe the scary shark toy? I guess it will always remain a mystery.

We ate some yummy food, took a train, changed terminals and we were off again!

Flight #2

This was the biggie. We were flying from Chicago to Istanbul and it was a 10 hour doozy. The kids did AWESOME!!!! They really couldn’t have done better. We watched movies, ate, and slept. I won’t bore you with all the details…

Istanbul:

Before we arrived in Istanbul we explained to the kids that when we got off that plane we wouldn’t be in America anymore, so they needed to expect things to be different. The first sign of different was when we went through the security check. O.M.G. As Havalah went through the x-ray scanner deal-io the TSA officer (a woman) grabbed Havalah and started smothering her face with kisses. HAHAHA!!! It was so awesome. She was going on and on in Turkish, grabbing, kissing, talking, more kissing. At that point we were certain we weren’t in Oregon anymore. Seth got the same smooch treatment and we were on our way. I’m not sure they took note of anything in our bags, they were just too enamored with our kids. I loved every second of it, and Hava and Seth didn’t seem to mind it much either. πŸ™‚

Flight #3:

This flight was less than 2 hours long, so I don’t have much to say about it. Quick and painless, and before we knew it we were in Kiev! The feelings as we touched down in Ukraine were like nothing I’ve ever felt before. Jed and I met eyes and were like “Holy cow. We did it. We made it. God did this. After 3 years of dreaming, we are here- with our kids. WOW.”

Kiev:

Once we got down to baggage claim in Kiev we were in good hands. We looked out the glass doors and could see a group of our dear friends from the Kiev Vineyard waiting for us, waving and smiling. YES!!! All we had to do was get our bags from the carousel to the door and then we had many hands hugging us and helping us. Praise God for the Body of Christ. Praise God for family in Kiev. We love them so much!

Want to know the biggest miracle of all? ALL 12 BAGS MADE IT TO KIEV. Jed and I were literally whooping with joy when we grabbed the last bag off the carousel. It was definitely a moment to celebrate. πŸ™‚

Our friends helped us to the van we had hired and we were off on the road to Zhitomir! All the kids except Seth fell asleep on the two-hour drive, so that was easy peasy. When we arrived at the house our friend Oleg was waiting with keys to let us right in. He even brought food for breakfast this morning! All our friends here made us feel so loved and welcome. Then we logged in online and all our friends from the US were cheering us on like crazy! It’s like one ginormous hug fest and we are loving every second of it. Thank you, dear ones, both near and far.

All in all, the travel couldn’t have been more perfect. Tomorrow I’ll show you pictures of the house, so stay tuned! Woot! πŸ˜‰

We are so unbelievably thankful that God has brought us this far. He has covered every single detail. It just goes to show you that the children we’ve come to serve are so stinkin’ dear to His heart. He will stop at nothing to have His way. He will stop at nothing to bring light into darkness. All of this is for His glory. He continues to pave the way and we simply can not wait to see what He has in store next. He is changing the atmosphere and softening hearts. He is opening eyes and we are humbled to be His hands and feet in this place.

To God be ALL the glory for the great, amazing, fantastic, unbelievably good things He has done.

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On Bravery

My kids have a strange phobia of escalators.

When presented with an escalator their eyes grow huge, they back away slowly…hanging on to Mommy for dear life. They would choose an elevator over an escalator any day.

These kids- the same ones who will happily take on Space Mountain and California Screamin’ with a smile on their faces are totally, illogically scared out of their minds when it comes to escalators.

That would be fine and I wouldn’t care at all, except the teeny weeny fact that we’re moving to Ukraine next month. Ummmm have you seen how you get down to the subway in Ukraine???

Ummm…yeah…our little fear of escalators just isn’t gonna cut it.

So, today we practiced!

We faced our fears

We helped each other when they were afraid

And we conquered!

We are so brave!!!

Bam! Take that escalator!
Brace yourself, Kiev Metro. We’re comin’ for ya.

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